Coping with Children's Reactions to Disaster & Trauma

How to Help Children Cope with Trauma

Although children have many of the same reactions as adults do to trauma, they have different ways of expressing their reactions and need some special help to cope. The following are some suggestions for dealing with the child in crisis.

Encourage children and teens to talk about their concerns and to express their feelings.
Explain the facts that you know about the event.
Reinforce safety and security.

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Children's responses to trauma vary according to the age of the child. Generally, children respond by reverting to behavior typical of an earlier developmental stage. These responses are considered NORMAL if they are of brief (less than three weeks) duration. If any of these symptoms continue, there are professionals available to help you with your questions.

Increased somatic complaints (e.g., headaches, stomachaches, aches and pains)
Changes in sleep, nightmares
Changes in appetite, weight loss
Marked changes in school performance; absenteeism
Lack of interest in usual activities (e.g., after-school activities, time with friends)
Poor concentration, sleepiness, inattentiveness
Increase in hyperactivity
Irritability with friends, teachers, events
Anger outbursts and/or aggression
Reckless or risk-taking behavior
Neglects about dress and appearance or health
Persistent sadness or depression
Withdrawal

For Younger Children: Ages 1 - 6	AGES 7-11	AGES 12 -18
Bedwetting Crying Immobility Excessive clinging Thumb sucking Fear of darkness Inattentiveness Fear of being left alone Nightmares Inability to sleep without a light or someone else Awakening during night Confusion	Refusal to go to school Bedwetting Nightmares Change in sleep patterns unwilling to fall asleep need for night ligh fear of sleeping alone fear of darkness Irritability Disobedience Loss of concentration Fighting	Running away Suicidal thoughts Stealing Sleeplessness School problems Confusion Use of drugs Use of alcohol Relationship difficulties Aggressiveness Irritability Inattentiveness